Never Have I Ever Questions for Couples: 100 Funny, Flirty and Spicy Ones

Never have I ever for couples is played with two people taking turns saying something they have never done; if your partner has done it, they put a finger down (or take a sip), and the first to lose all five fingers loses. With just the two of you, the fun is less about winning and more about the stories behind each finger. Below are 100 never have I ever questions for couples, sorted from funny to spicy, with sets for new relationships, long-term couples, long distance and playing over text.

How to play never have I ever as a couple

1. Hold up five fingers each (or ten for a longer game).
2. Take turns saying "Never have I ever…" plus something you have never done.
3. If your partner has done it, they put a finger down and tell the story. A drinking version swaps fingers for sips.
4. First to zero fingers loses and picks the next game, does the dishes, or pays a forfeit you agreed on.

Two house rules that make it better for couples: anyone can pass on a question with no explanation, and no using answers in a future argument. Agree both before you start.

Funny never have I ever questions for couples

1. Never have I ever pretended to like a meal you cooked.
2. Never have I ever practised what I'd say to you in the mirror.
3. Never have I ever stolen food off your plate and blamed the dog.
4. Never have I ever fallen asleep during a film you picked.
5. Never have I ever googled you before our first date.
6. Never have I ever laughed at something you said and not understood it.
7. Never have I ever worn your clothes when you weren't home.
8. Never have I ever hidden a purchase from you.
9. Never have I ever rehearsed a text to you with a friend.
10. Never have I ever watched an episode of our show without you.
11. Never have I ever pretended I was asleep so I didn't have to get up first.
12. Never have I ever had a nickname for you that I've never said out loud.
13. Never have I ever got lost on the way to a date and lied about why I was late.
14. Never have I ever screenshotted our chat to show my best friend.
15. Never have I ever eaten the last biscuit and put the empty packet back.

Never have I ever questions for new couples and the talking stage

For the first weeks, when you are still learning the basics. Keep it light and curious.

16. Never have I ever been on a blind date.
17. Never have I ever been in love before.
18. Never have I ever met someone off a dating app.
19. Never have I ever been dumped by text.
20. Never have I ever kept a photo of an ex on my phone.
21. Never have I ever had a holiday romance.
22. Never have I ever said "I love you" first.
23. Never have I ever had a crush on a teacher.
24. Never have I ever written a poem about someone I liked.
25. Never have I ever been on a date with two people in the same week.
26. Never have I ever lied about my age to impress someone.
27. Never have I ever been told I'm a bad kisser.
28. Never have I ever cried over someone I never actually dated.
29. Never have I ever moved cities for someone.
30. Never have I ever been the one to make the first move.

Juicy never have I ever questions about your relationship

For couples who have been together a while. These are the ones that start the long conversations.

31. Never have I ever thought about our wedding.
32. Never have I ever been jealous of one of your exes.
33. Never have I ever almost broken up with you.
34. Never have I ever told my friends about one of our fights.
35. Never have I ever kept a gift you gave me that I secretly don't like.
36. Never have I ever read your messages over your shoulder.
37. Never have I ever compared you to an ex, in my head.
38. Never have I ever pretended to be busy so I could have a night alone.
39. Never have I ever kept a secret from you for more than a week.
40. Never have I ever wanted to say sorry first and didn't.
41. Never have I ever picked a name for our future pet.
42. Never have I ever got annoyed at you for something you did in my dream.
43. Never have I ever deleted a message before you could read it.
44. Never have I ever felt nervous meeting your family.
45. Never have I ever wished you would plan the date for once.

Flirty never have I ever questions for couples

46. Never have I ever thought about kissing you in the middle of a serious conversation.
47. Never have I ever chosen an outfit just because I knew you'd like it.
48. Never have I ever replayed our first kiss in my head.
49. Never have I ever smelt your pillow when you weren't there.
50. Never have I ever got butterflies from a text you sent.
51. Never have I ever stared at you while you were sleeping.
52. Never have I ever wanted to leave a party early just to be alone with you.
53. Never have I ever saved a photo of you as my lock screen.
54. Never have I ever blushed when someone mentioned your name.
55. Never have I ever imagined what you were wearing while we were on the phone.
56. Never have I ever had a favourite part of your body that I've never told you about.
57. Never have I ever wanted you to kiss me and waited for you to notice.
58. Never have I ever flirted with you in front of other people on purpose.
59. Never have I ever thought you looked best first thing in the morning.
60. Never have I ever written you a message and deleted it because it was too much.

Spicy never have I ever questions for couples (18+)

For later in the night, with limits agreed first. These stay suggestive rather than graphic. Our spicy never have I ever questions has 100 more for adults, couples and parties.

61. Never have I ever had a fantasy about you I've never mentioned.
62. Never have I ever wanted to try role play.
63. Never have I ever kissed someone in a cinema.
64. Never have I ever sent a photo I regretted.
65. Never have I ever gone swimming at night.
66. Never have I ever been caught in the middle of something.
67. Never have I ever wanted to be blindfolded.
68. Never have I ever had a dream about someone famous.
69. Never have I ever been turned on by your voice on the phone.
70. Never have I ever bought something to wear just for you.
71. Never have I ever thought about you in the shower.
72. Never have I ever wanted to stay in bed with you all day.
73. Never have I ever made out in a car.
74. Never have I ever wanted to try a game like dirty dice.
75. Never have I ever had a secret wish I've been too shy to say out loud.

Never have I ever questions for long distance couples

76. Never have I ever fallen asleep on a video call with you.
77. Never have I ever cried at the airport after saying goodbye.
78. Never have I ever counted the days until I see you.
79. Never have I ever slept in a shirt you left behind.
80. Never have I ever watched a film with you at the same time from different cities.
81. Never have I ever checked the weather where you live.
82. Never have I ever set an alarm for your time zone.
83. Never have I ever thought about moving to be near you.
84. Never have I ever replayed one of your voice notes more than five times.
85. Never have I ever been jealous of the people who get to see you every day.

Never have I ever questions for couples over text

Over text, swap fingers for points: each "I have" is a point, and the first to five loses. Reply with "I have" or "never", and add one line about when.

86. Never have I ever read your message and waited before replying so I didn't look too keen.
87. Never have I ever typed a reply to you, deleted it and typed it again.
88. Never have I ever shown your message to someone to ask what it meant.
89. Never have I ever sent you a text meant for someone else.
90. Never have I ever left you on read on purpose.
91. Never have I ever had a text from you as my wallpaper.
92. Never have I ever stayed up late just because we were still texting.
93. Never have I ever re-read our first conversation.
94. Never have I ever sent a voice note and immediately regretted it.
95. Never have I ever used an emoji I didn't understand.
96. Never have I ever texted you from the same room.
97. Never have I ever muted our chat when I was annoyed.
98. Never have I ever pretended my phone died to end a conversation.
99. Never have I ever started a message with "be honest…" and been scared of the answer.
100. Never have I ever wanted to say "I love you" by text before saying it in person.

Tips for playing with your partner

• Ask "when?" after every finger. The story is better than the point.
• Mix the sets. Two funny, one juicy, one flirty keeps it moving.
• Write your own. The best questions are about things only the two of you know.
• No grudges. If an answer stings, talk about it later, not in the middle of the game.

Want another game after this one? Our date night games for couples at home has twenty more, and truth or dare questions for couples pairs well with it.

Play it on your phone

Our Never Have I Ever app has more than 1,800 questions in 21 decks, including a Couples deck, a Crush deck and spicy decks for adults. The Icebreaker and Funny decks are free, the rest unlock with a one-time purchase, and there are no ads. If you want something spicier for two, Dirty Dice rolls an action and a body part: 785 dares in 14 decks, 105 of them free. You can also play never have I ever online in a browser.

Common questions

How do you play never have I ever with just two people?
Each holds up five fingers and you take turns saying something you have never done. If the other person has done it, they put a finger down and explain. First to zero loses.

What are good never have I ever questions for couples?
Questions about your relationship and each other's past: "Never have I ever googled you before our first date", "Never have I ever almost broken up with you" or "Never have I ever replayed our first kiss in my head".

What are spicy never have I ever questions for couples?
Suggestive ones like "Never have I ever had a fantasy about you I've never mentioned" or "Never have I ever made out in a car". Agree limits first and let either of you pass.

Can you play never have I ever over text?
Yes. Take turns sending a question, reply "I have" or "never" with one line of explanation, and keep score with points instead of fingers.

What are funny never have I ever questions for couples?
"Never have I ever pretended to like a meal you cooked", "Never have I ever fallen asleep during a film you picked" and "Never have I ever stolen food off your plate and blamed the dog".