Spicy Never Have I Ever Questions: 100 for Adults, Couples and Parties

Spicy Never Have I Ever questions are the adult versions of the game: confessions about dating, crushes, exes, nights out and the bedroom, phrased so anyone who has done it has to own up. Here are 100 of them for 18+ groups, sorted by heat and by who is playing: warm-up questions, juicy ones for a party, flirty ones for couples, dirty ones for close friends and rounds built for the drinking version. Start in the first section and only turn the heat up when the whole group is laughing, not squirming.

How to play spicy Never Have I Ever

Everyone holds up five (or ten) fingers. Take turns saying "Never have I ever…" plus something you have never done. Anyone who has done it puts a finger down (or drinks, in the drinking version). Last person with fingers up wins. Two rules make the spicy version work:

• Anyone can pass, no questions asked. Pressure kills the game faster than a boring question.
• No questions aimed at one person. "Never have I ever dated Sam's brother" is not a question, it's an ambush.

Warm-up questions (mildly spicy)

1. Never have I ever sent a flirty text to the wrong person.
2. Never have I ever had a crush on a teacher or boss.
3. Never have I ever pretended to know someone's name on a date.
4. Never have I ever stalked an ex's profile at 2 a.m.
5. Never have I ever lied about my age.
6. Never have I ever ghosted someone.
7. Never have I ever been ghosted after a date I thought went well.
8. Never have I ever had a crush on a friend's sibling.
9. Never have I ever faked being sick to skip a date.
10. Never have I ever matched with someone I knew on a dating app.
11. Never have I ever reread an old chat with an ex.
12. Never have I ever kissed someone on the first date.
13. Never have I ever been on two dates in one day.
14. Never have I ever drunk-texted someone I shouldn't have.
15. Never have I ever had a celebrity crush that lasted more than five years.

Juicy Never Have I Ever questions for a party

16. Never have I ever kissed someone in this room.
17. Never have I ever had a crush on someone in this room.
18. Never have I ever lied about where I was last night.
19. Never have I ever had a secret relationship.
20. Never have I ever dated a friend's ex.
21. Never have I ever had a crush on a friend's partner.
22. Never have I ever gone home with someone I met that night.
23. Never have I ever kissed two people in one night.
24. Never have I ever got back with an ex and regretted it.
25. Never have I ever snuck someone into my room.
26. Never have I ever woken up not knowing where I was.
27. Never have I ever been caught kissing by a parent.
28. Never have I ever been in a situationship for more than six months.
29. Never have I ever deleted a message before the other person saw it.
30. Never have I ever flirted my way out of trouble.
31. Never have I ever pretended to be single.
32. Never have I ever used a fake name in a bar.
33. Never have I ever kissed a stranger at midnight on New Year's.
34. Never have I ever had a crush on my best friend.
35. Never have I ever sent a risky photo.

Spicy Never Have I Ever questions for couples

For two people, or for a couples' night with friends. Expect follow-up questions.

36. Never have I ever thought about you while I was at work.
37. Never have I ever checked you out when you weren't looking.
38. Never have I ever wanted to kiss you in the middle of an argument.
39. Never have I ever planned what I'd wear just to get a reaction from you.
40. Never have I ever had a dream about you I didn't tell you about.
41. Never have I ever wanted to try something new and not said so.
42. Never have I ever kissed in a public place where we could have been caught.
43. Never have I ever sent a text I hoped would make you blush.
44. Never have I ever faked being asleep to avoid a conversation.
45. Never have I ever wanted to skip a party and stay in with you.
46. Never have I ever been jealous and pretended I wasn't.
47. Never have I ever looked through your phone.
48. Never have I ever liked something because you liked it.
49. Never have I ever had a crush on one of your friends before we met.
50. Never have I ever wished our first kiss had happened sooner.

Want more for two? Try our truth or dare questions for couples or couple games to play on phone.

Dirty Never Have I Ever questions (close friends only)

Only for a group where everyone knows each other well and has said yes to this round.

51. Never have I ever skinny-dipped.
52. Never have I ever had a one-night stand.
53. Never have I ever had a friends-with-benefits arrangement.
54. Never have I ever kissed someone of the same gender.
55. Never have I ever been walked in on.
56. Never have I ever hooked up in a car.
57. Never have I ever hooked up somewhere I really shouldn't have.
58. Never have I ever role-played.
59. Never have I ever used a dating app just for a hook-up.
60. Never have I ever had a crush on someone much older than me.
61. Never have I ever hooked up with an ex after the break-up.
62. Never have I ever been handcuffed (for any reason).
63. Never have I ever had a hook-up I never told anyone about.
64. Never have I ever stayed in bed with someone all weekend.
65. Never have I ever kept something from a partner I'd be too embarrassed to say out loud.

Drinking-game Never Have I Ever questions

These are written so most of the room drinks. Use small sips, water counts, and anyone can switch to a soft drink at any point.

66. Never have I ever drunk-dialled an ex.
67. Never have I ever cried on a night out.
68. Never have I ever fallen asleep at a party.
69. Never have I ever lost my phone on a night out.
70. Never have I ever woken up with a tattoo, a piercing or a new haircut I didn't plan.
71. Never have I ever thrown up in a taxi.
72. Never have I ever eaten something off the floor after a night out.
73. Never have I ever danced on a table.
74. Never have I ever pretended to be sober in front of my parents.
75. Never have I ever ordered food at 3 a.m. and not remembered it.
76. Never have I ever kissed someone and forgotten their name.
77. Never have I ever told a stranger my life story in a bathroom queue.
78. Never have I ever gone to work or class still tipsy.
79. Never have I ever lied about how much I'd had to drink.
80. Never have I ever booked a holiday after a few drinks.

Bachelorette and bachelor party questions

81. Never have I ever been in love with two people at once.
82. Never have I ever cried at a wedding I didn't want to go to.
83. Never have I ever kissed someone at a wedding.
84. Never have I ever written a love letter.
85. Never have I ever stayed friends with an ex.
86. Never have I ever been proposed to (jokingly counts).
87. Never have I ever got a number on a hen or stag do.
88. Never have I ever had a crush on a bride's or groom's friend.
89. Never have I ever told someone "I love you" first.
90. Never have I ever imagined my own wedding with someone I'd just met.

Embarrassing questions to finish on

91. Never have I ever practised kissing on my hand.
92. Never have I ever rehearsed a conversation with my crush in the mirror.
93. Never have I ever liked an old photo while stalking someone.
94. Never have I ever walked into a glass door trying to look cool.
95. Never have I ever waved back at someone who wasn't waving at me.
96. Never have I ever written a crush's name in a notebook.
97. Never have I ever sent a voice note I instantly regretted.
98. Never have I ever tripped in front of someone I liked.
99. Never have I ever pretended to be on the phone to avoid someone.
100. Never have I ever played this game and lied.

Play it on your phone

Running out of questions is what kills the game. Never Have I Ever: Dirty Game has more than 1,800 questions in 21 decks, from Icebreaker and Funny (both free) to Hot, Seductive, Naughty, Taboo, Couples, Drunk Truths and Bachelor Party. Pass one phone around and tap for the next card, so nobody has to think of questions. The decks are in English, Spanish, French, German and Italian, and it works offline on Android. Prefer the browser? Never Have I Ever online covers free ways to play without an app, and party games for adults on phone has more games for the same crowd.

Common questions

What are some spicy Never Have I Ever questions?
"Never have I ever kissed someone in this room", "never have I ever had a secret relationship", "never have I ever sent a risky photo" and "never have I ever gone home with someone I met that night" are good ones for adult groups.

What are juicy Never Have I Ever questions?
Juicy questions are about dating drama and secrets rather than anything explicit: dating a friend's ex, having a crush on someone in the room, lying about where you were last night, pretending to be single.

What are spicy Never Have I Ever questions for couples?
Questions about each other: "Never have I ever checked you out when you weren't looking", "never have I ever wanted to kiss you in the middle of an argument", "never have I ever had a dream about you I didn't tell you about".

How do you play Never Have I Ever as a drinking game?
Instead of putting a finger down, anyone who has done the thing takes a sip. Keep sips small, have water on the table and let anyone switch to a soft drink.

How do you keep spicy Never Have I Ever fun and not awkward?
Agree that anyone can pass, never aim a question at one person, and raise the heat slowly. If people go quiet, go back to the warm-up questions.